relationship

Assalammualaikum w.r.t


RELATIONSHIP.just one word but gives a lot of meaning behind it. sometimes people always misunderstand the true meaning of relationship. it is not as simple as changing the status of facebook from single to in a relationship tapi, it is more than that. Relationship merupakan satu tanggungjawab, kesetiaan dan kepercayaan. it is depend on how individual treat his/her relationship. kat dunia ni,macam-macam jenis perhubungan yang kita sedia maklum. perhubungan melibatkan sesama manusia dan juga perhubungan antara manusia dan Tuhan. perhubungan sesama manusia boleh diklasifikasikan kepada perhubungan antara ibubapa dan anak, perhubungan persahabatan, perhubungan suami isteri dan juga perhubungan antara lelaki dan perempuan. for this entry, i just want to talk about the relationship between girls and boys only since it is most popular types of relationship nowdays. have you ever being in a relationship and then broke up?how do you feel?it's hurt right?and for sure,rasa menyesal pun ada jugak kan.so, macam ni ke perhubungan yang anda nak sangat?come on peeps.don't be fooled by this kind of relationship. people always said that love is blind. tapi sebenarnya, manusia yang buta sebab cinta. am i right? 


recently, i'm being a good listener for my friend. she's got a problem with her boyfriend. seperti biasalah, aku memang tak percaya sangat kat laki-laki nih. kalau ikutkan hati aku, memang aku nak je dia tinggalkan laki tu. tapi tak sampai hatilah pulak kan because she loves that boy very much. from this problem, she have changed a lot. dia berubah menjadi seseorang yang susah difahami, degil dan terlalu obses with that guy sampaikan dia tak kisahkan pandangan orang sekeliling dia. it is too much. nilah contoh kebutaan yang disebabkan cinta. because of this, she hurts the other relationship especially friendship. 


most important thing, every relationship must have a bless from Allah. inilah dinamakan perhubungan dengan Tuhan. jika perhubungan dengan Allah gagal, sudah semestinya perhubungan yang lain juga akan gagal. believes me. jangan sesekali menyalahkan takdir kerana takdir itu adalah satu pelajaran hidup yang mematangkan kita. jangan sesekali berputus asa atas ujian yang menimpa kerana pasti ada hikmah yang tersembunyi di sebalik ujian tersebut. one thing she told me, she believes in do'a than anything. But for me, the most important thing other than do'a is Allah. apa-apa pun yang berlaku semuanya atas kehendak Allah. Do'a is an effort but the one that makes our do'a comes true is Allah. So, please believe in Allah than anything else. if He does not grant any of our do'a, then He must be prepared something  much better for us. just keep our faith towards Him and everything will be alright. dan sudah semestinya, segala masalah dan ujian dapat diatasi dengan tenang. InsyaAllah..


Thank you for reading!lots of love!




notapalalutut: cinta tak semestinya bersama jodoh tetapi jodoh pasti akan bersama cinta. dan jodoh hanya ditentukan oleh Allah Taala. Tiada yang lain dariNya.